It's now been 6 months since I started the shopping ban, and I think the experiment has been successful. I've saved money, purchased only necessities and the things allowed in my parameters, and I've learned a lot about my choices and my consumer habits. I'm definitely going to continue this experiment but there's a few differences for the next 6 months.
The first difference is that I am going to rename this. Phase 1 was a pretty broad ban on most shopping, so "shopping ban" was an appropriate name. The ban on shopping was an effort to save money, stop spending unnecessarily, rethink my habits, and to challenge every purchase I was making. I did all that, and am pretty comfortable with my everyday habits at this point.
Phase 2: Conscientious Consumerism
Phase 2 focuses on limiting consumption overall, avoiding unnecessary spending, striving for zero waste solutions, continuing charitable contributions, making purchases in the most ethical way possible.
I discovered a few things that I want to tweak moving forward.
I allowed used books as part of my allowed shopping list in Phase 1, but I want to change it for this next step. Books are my weakness, so my hierarchy for reading is as follows: library (digital or physical), buy used, buy the Kindle digital version, or buy new as a last resort. I often come across books that are not available at the library or used, so I'm allowing Kindle books to be purchased now. The limit will not apply to books for the OC Book Club as those books are allowed in the Allowed Shopping List. I am putting a limit on amount of money per month spent on books though (see Rule #2) so that I don't get crazy.
I also found myself wanting to support local artists or independent artists who are donating money for a cause. So I am going to allow that under Rule #3.
So here's my rules for Phase 2, starting 1 April 2019:
1) SAME: I can purchase necessary consumable items from the allowed shopping list, but only when needed.
--Approved Shopping List: Toiletries, cleaning supplies, pet supplies, home improvement materials, OC book club books, crafting supplies
2) NEW: I'm imposing a limit of $20 per month on books. I will strive to get the book from the library first, but I am now allowed to buy used, Kindle digital, or new [in that order].
3) NEW: Allow purchases for a cause or to support local artists. Examples: a piece of jewelry that is made by an independent artist and the proceeds support ocean conservation, or piece of artwork made by a local artist I want to support.
4) SAME: Travel souvenirs are allowed still. These are typically earrings, fridge magnets, or books from the country I'm traveling in. It's an infrequent purchase and brings me much year round joy to have fun earrings to wear, magnets to remind me of adventures, and books to read.
5) NEW: Only purchase used clothing primarily. I don't foresee needing much in the way of clothing anytime soon, but I will choose to purchase used clothing first, then responsibly made clothing second. Much of my everyday clothing styles can be purchased used from REI Used, Patagonia Worn Wear, local thrift shops, etc.
--See also: Clothing Industry and the Environment.
6) SAME: Purchases to replace legitimately worn out items are still allowed, but subject to rule #5 above.
7) SAME: Gift giving will continue to follow the ethical hierarchy of gift purchases and focus on making memories not stuff.
--See also: Black Friday 2018
8) NEW: Fitness related purchases are allowed, IF I am replacing something worn out (like running shoes), OR repairing something that is broken (like my bike), OR trying my hand at a new sport and need equipment.